Wholesome Reality Dating Shows You Should Be Shipping
My husband and I love to binge watch reality dating shows on Netflix. Many of them get a bad rep for being over-the-top dramatic or downright cringeworthy (we’re looking at you, “Love Is Blind”). While it is entertaining, we especially love reality TV that’s less about chaotic love triangles, and more about heartfelt connections and genuine moments.
If you’re over the toxic drama and ready for pure, wholesome romance, here are the reality dating shows you should be watching.
Love on the Spectrum
Wholesomeness rating: 10/10
This touching series showcases love and dating through the eyes of individuals on the autism spectrum. Each episode introduces you to relatable, kind-hearted singles navigating the complexities of relationships with warmth, humour, and courage.
What makes this show so special? Its authenticity. No crazy fights or backstabbing here – just genuine connections and people being unapologetically themselves. The moments of vulnerability, the awkward but sweet first dates, and the small wins along the way will absolutely steal your heart. There is an American and Australian version – I recommend you watch both!
Why you’ll ship it: It’s about more than romance – it’s also about self-love and celebrating individuality. Watching families support their loved ones on this journey adds another layer of wholesome feels.
Love Village
Wholesomeness rating: 9/10
Imagine Japanese singles aged 35 and above rebuilding a rustic home in the serene Japanese countryside. That’s “Love Village”.
The slow pace of the show feels like a deep breath of fresh air. Instead of flashy edits and rushed declarations, you get meaningful conversations, shared meals, and simple joys, like harvesting vegetables or building furniture together. The second season has just been released, and features singles trying to find love in Okinawa.
Why you’ll ship it: The respect among the cast members is refreshing. Plus, watching friendships blossom alongside romance is a slow-burn satisfaction like no other.
Ainori Love Wagon
Wholesomeness rating: 9/10
Seven strangers. A bright pink van. And a journey across Asia (season 1, which includes Singapore!) and Africa (season 2).
This Japanese reality gem’s unique part-travelogue-part-love-story concept is a mix of light-hearted fun and deep, emotional connections. Plus, the cultural exploration is a bonus. You’ll learn about different countries while cheering your favourite couples on.
Why you’ll ship it: The group dynamics, combined with the heartfelt confessions, are pure magic. Also, the show’s quirky charm grows on you.
Indian Matchmaking
Wholesomeness rating: 7/10
Seema Taparia, aka “Seema Aunty”, is here to help singles navigate the tricky world of arranged marriages. Balancing tradition with modernity, this series captures the joys and challenges of finding love in Indian culture.
Yes, there’s some drama (matchmaking is no cakewalk), but heart-warming moments of self-discovery and family bonding make up for it. There are three seasons on Netflix, and the show jumps from Mumbai and Delhi to Texas and New Jersey.
Why you’ll ship it: It’s a fascinating dive into love and tradition, with Seema Aunty dropping iconic pearls of wisdom.
Love After Divorce
Wholesomeness Rating: 8/10
This Korean series proves that love can happen twice. Divorced singles live together in a house in Cancun, learning about each other’s past episode by episode. The result? A sincere show that highlights growth, healing, and the courage it takes to open your heart again. Only season 4 is available on Netflix, focused on Koreans based in the US.
Why you’ll ship it: Watching the characters support each other while finding love makes this show an emotional and uplifting experience.
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